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There was a time when I thought I had to choose between living beautifully and living realistically.
Between fashion and comfort. Between travel and exhaustion. Between ambition and slowing down. Between who I used to be and who I was becoming.
Wots Her Name Again? was born somewhere in the middle of all of that.
I am Lee-Anne Weise, founder of Wots Her Name Again, a London-born writer, marketer and chronic over-packer with a love of fashion, beauty, travel, and all the little details that make everyday life feel a little more special.
Before launching the Wots Her Name Again?, I worked in marketing and e-commerce, including at IWantOneOfThose.com, wrote for Fashion Finest and Pride Magazine, and spent years immersed in style, trend spotting and the kind of editorial content that makes you want to bookmark everything.
But alongside all of that, life was changing.
Living with Lupus meant learning to do things differently. I had to rethink the way I travelled, worked, got dressed, made plans and even the way I saw myself. Suddenly, the things that once felt effortless needed more thought, more planning and more grace.
Yet I quickly realised something important: having Lupus did not mean giving up the parts of myself that I loved.
I still wanted to wear the dress. Book the trip. Try the new beauty launch. Have the career. Go for dinner. Romanticise my life a little.
So I created the kind of space I could not find anywhere else.
A place where style meets reality.
Where travel comes with practical advice, not pressure.
Where beauty is about confidence and self-care rather than perfection.
Where conversations about Lupus, wellbeing and everyday life feel honest, stylish and hopeful.

More Than A Lifestyle Blog
Wots Her Name Again? is for women who love the idea of elevated living, but want it to feel real.
The women who still save outfit inspiration and dream destinations, but also need comfortable fabrics, airport assistance tips, skincare that works for sensitive skin and permission to cancel plans when they need to.
Here, you will find:
- Style and beauty with an editorial edge
- Travel guides with practical tips and honest recommendations
- Thoughts on living well with Lupus and navigating chronic illness
- Work, relationships and social life advice
- The small luxuries and everyday rituals that make life feel softer
Think of it as ELLE meets real life.
The Story Behind The Name
Why “Wots Her Name Again?”
Because for a while, I felt as though I had lost pieces of myself.
The confident version. The stylish version. The woman who could say yes to everything without thinking twice.
When you are living with a chronic illness or simply moving through a season of change, it is easy to feel disconnected from who you used to be.
This blog is about finding her again.
Not exactly as she was before, but as the newer, wiser, stronger version of yourself.
The version that knows that life can still be beautiful, even when it looks different.
Let’s Stay In Touch
If you have ever felt as though you were trying to hold on to yourself whilst learning to live differently, you are in exactly the right place.
Whether you are here for travel advice, beauty finds, Lupus support or simply a reminder that you are still allowed to want beautiful things, I hope Wots Her Name Again? feels like a place that understands.
You are still you.
Life may look different than you imagined, but it can still be stylish, joyful and entirely your own.
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